Questions are powerful. To illustrate this point, let’s take a look
at the Christian Bible. We will be
examining Genesis chapter three where it talks about Adam and Eve deciding to
disobey God. There are a series of
five questions, one by a Satan possessed serpent and four from God.
Satan’s
Question
The serpent asked Eve, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall
not eat of any tree in the garden’” (Genesis 3:1)? This begins their conversation as recorded, but
it seems as though we are picking up the discussion in the middle. Never the less, Eve is set up for the
insertion of doubt. The subtle
serpent follows up his question by calling God a liar. The serpent’s agenda took over and affected
Eve’s choice for negative and lasting lifestyle change.
God’s
Questions
Question number one from God to Adam was, “Where
are you” (Genesis 3:9)? Here God is
trying to ascertain where Adam is located.
Life Coaches do this in a similar fashion. They want to know where the client is in
their goal to change.
Question number two from God to Adam was, “Who told
you that you were naked” (Genesis 3:11)?
So God has heard Adam tell Him where he is, and they both discovered
that Adam is naked. The next logical
question is, “How did you become naked?”
The thing is that God already knows the answer. One purpose of the question is to allow Adam
to gain his own insight into evaluating his current predicament.
Question number three from God to Adam was, “Have
you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat” (Genesis 3:11)? This a closed question, but Adam does not
respond with a simple no or yes.
Although it was his choice, Adam blames God and Eve for his decision,
and describes what brought him to his nakedness.
Question number four from God to Eve was, “What is
this that you have done” (Genesis 3:13)?
In marriage coaching fashion, God speaks to the other spouse with what I
call a statement question. Everybody
involved knows the answer and the responsible parties have already experienced
the consequences. The benefit here is
that it provides accountability by leaving responsiblity with the client.
The
Bottom Line
Questions are powerful and possess the potential
for negative and positive lifestyle change.
Questions lead to discussion that sets an agenda, evaluates current
position, gives insight, and provides accountability. Change is not always easy or full of
sunshine. You have to make a
choice. Change or not, it costs.
All Bible quotes are taken from the English
Standard Version (ESV).
Nick
Massey is a Life Coach, Speaker, and Writer.
To read more from Nick Massey, or to schedule him for a Life Coaching
session, or book him to speak to your church, business, or group, visit our
website at http://www.coachmassey.com. © 2014 Nick Massey
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